Comments on: How Do I Stop My Toddler from Throwing Things! https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/ Simple hands on activities for busy parents. Tue, 30 Jun 2020 18:28:08 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Annalisa https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-933 Thu, 30 Mar 2017 03:21:02 +0000 #comment-933 In reply to Anonymous.

Maybe he's not interested in colors and shapes right now. Maybe he is interested in patterns and lines. He's learning something in his own way, and I think I'd just let him go with it (as long as he isn't putting the buttons in his mouth).

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By: Annalisa https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-932 Thu, 30 Mar 2017 03:15:38 +0000 #comment-932 In reply to Anonymous.

The only thing I'd add to that is to make sure he knows what he's apologizing for. Simply saying "sorry" doesn't really fix anything or make headway for the future. Even "I'm sorry for whatever made you mad" (I think we've all heard that before at one time or another!) doesn't really cut it. ("It wasn't my intention to make you mad. Could you please explain to me what I said/did?" is okay because they're trying to improve. However, that's probably a bit too advanced for a 21-month old!) And if he's not really sorry, you can't make him be sorry/truly apologize either. 🙁

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By: Melanie https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-931 Fri, 06 Jan 2017 05:10:36 +0000 #comment-931 Thanks for this. I realize that we need to give him more good things to throw, like soft things and balls.

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By: Anonymous https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-930 Tue, 27 Dec 2016 23:04:38 +0000 #comment-930 I think everyone is taking this "throwing problem" too lightly. It can be very serious if something that can be dangerous is being thrown. My grandson threw a toy that hit me extremley hard on the bridge of my nose, which caused nosebleeds and a black eye. My point is, if they are not taught at home not to throw things (anything) then in public you may have an issue. There are people among us that seek to file lawsuits for anything at all.

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By: Anonymous https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-929 Sun, 25 Dec 2016 00:48:24 +0000 #comment-929 In reply to Anonymous.

I'm an early years professional and find that a lot of our babies and toddlers throw items.it's nice to know that im using the right words your also using to change the behaviour

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By: Diane Knight https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-928 Fri, 09 Dec 2016 19:40:35 +0000 #comment-928 In reply to Anonymous.

I have an almost 2 1/2 year old. He's non verbal and has Autism and he got it. Ex.. "Don't throw that in the house (hard ball). You can throw this one (soft ball). So I took away the hard one away and at the same time, handed him the soft one. (It only took 110 times telling him.. hah) Actually, you're right about consistency, that's truly the key, but never underestimate your little one. They can do more and understand more than you think. They're not so easily confused.

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By: Anonymous https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-927 Thu, 24 Nov 2016 02:30:51 +0000 #comment-927 This is such a well written post! Thank you. I've read quite a few posts that deliver a similar message but this really well presented. Thanks for sharing. It's very informative and useful :O)

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By: Anonymous https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-926 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 10:58:44 +0000 #comment-926 In reply to Anonymous.

it didn't work my 19 year old brother is still throwing food on the floor? he wants me to clean it up ヽ(゜-゜)ノ i called him a pig he got angry (-_- )

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By: Tina https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-925 Tue, 15 Mar 2016 18:05:30 +0000 #comment-925 In reply to Unknown.

You might have a rule that sippies and bottles have to stay at the table or maybe have her sit on the floor in the kitchen. Then begin training her to put her cut on the table if she can reach it. With Gigi I constantly talk to her "put your cup on the bench when your done & go play". Yours may not understand at 14 months & that's OK – she is learning to understand language, follow directions and the way you expect her to care for her things as she gets older. If she walks off w the bottle just say "oops let's put your bottle on the bench so you know where it is". Do the same with her toys – before you allow her to get more toys out – "let's put your blocks away and we'll get out a story to read", etc… You have to be ultra consistent, involved w your child and patient but in the long run it is so important.

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By: Tina https://toddlerapproved.com/how-do-i-stop-my-toddler-from-throwing/#comment-924 Tue, 15 Mar 2016 17:58:48 +0000 #comment-924 In reply to Anonymous.

My ADHD 8 year old totally zones out the environment around him. I'm not saying your little guy has it but ignoring the environment around him may be a symptom of that. I hope that makes sense.

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